To add interest to the exercise regimen recommended by our oncologist, we acquired the habit of early morning walks on the local roads (no sidewalks here) to inspire us and lift the mantle of drudgery associated with mandated exercise. While doing so, we developed an appreciation of the etiquette, as interpreted by Tidewater Virginians, of signaling silent passing courtesies upon encountering one’s neighbors on a dead end road frequented only by residents, contractors and real estate agents. (we afoot, they behind the wheel of their car, SUV, pick-up or other conveyance).
We wave at every passing vehicle and mentally note the caliber of response. Broad categories of motivation can be attributed to those who respond: from simple courtesy to strangers, to “I see you every day and acknowledge your get-up-and-go” to “keep at it” to “your persistence is admirable” to “You go, girl!” Finer gradations of salutation emerge when contemplating the styles or responders.
The single finger raised from the steering wheel is the minimum acknowledgement signaling recognition without encouragement. No guarantee of repetition. Slightly more forthcoming is the four-finger raise, palm still firmly pressed against the wheel, probably the safest response for both driver and walker. Next warmest greeting is the hand lifted from the wheel with a single abbreviated motion in frank acknowledgement of the fleeting encounter with a minimum of commitment. More intense greetings scale up from a broad swing from the elbow reminiscent of a parade queen's gesture, to several vigorous waves, and on to the ultimate hand extended out the window, fingers splayed in warm recognition of a fellow wannabe athlete.
Stay well, and keep waving!
Copyright 2009
Lynn Chapman-Adler
www.lindalater.blogspot.com
Posted: August 20, 2009
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